"Neither of us believed in matchmaking, but now we are each other's best friend — and partner." — Lily, 33, Singapore
| James · M100278 | Lily · F100156 | |
|---|---|---|
| Age | Age 38 | Age 33 |
| City | 🌉 Hong Kong | 🦁 Singapore |
| Profession | Private Equity Fund Manager | Brand Director, Multinational Corporation |
| Education | Master's in Finance, HKU | Master's in Communications |
| MBTI | ENTJ | ENFP |
| Personality Tags | Goal-driven · Efficient · Direct | Creative · Passionate · Emotionally attuned |
| Shared Interests | Travel · Long-distance running | Travel · Photography |
| Open to Relocation | Yes (considering Singapore) | Open to Cross-Border |
Compatible age range, mutual acceptance of cross-border location preferences, and equivalent educational background — the candidate pool narrowed to 21.
Shared interests (travel) form a strong bond; professional levels are well-matched; family values align. ENTJ × ENFP is a classic complementary pairing.
Xiaohua Chen uncovered James's true concern:
"James wrote on his form that he 'doesn't really believe in matchmaking,' but he joined because a married friend recommended it. He wasn't reluctant to search — he was afraid of meeting someone inauthentic. Lily is direct and unperformed — exactly the genuineness he needed. During the introduction, I didn't oversell; I simply told him Lily's true style."
James's location preferences included "open to considering Singapore," triggering the n03 cross-border matching process:
| Phase | What Was Done |
|---|---|
| Dual-Matchmaker Assessment | HK-based Xiaohua Chen + SG-based Peiyun Lin jointly reviewed and confirmed the introduction |
| M3 Video Call | 3 sessions, ensuring thorough understanding before deciding to meet in person |
| First In-Person Meeting | James flew to Singapore; Lily arranged the weekend itinerary |
| Second Meeting | Lily flew to Hong Kong to experience James's everyday life |
| Contact | Decrypted only after dual-Matchmaker authorisation, ensuring end-to-end privacy |
On their third meeting, while walking along Marina Bay, James said, "I think we should give this a try." Lily said it was the simplest and most genuine confession she had ever heard.
"Neither of us believed in matchmaking, but now we are each other's best friend — and partner."
"Chen Xiaohua didn't oversell Lily. She simply told me, 'She's very direct — you'll like that.' It genuinely made me look forward to meeting her."
Every genuine encounter begins with a sincere decision.